Dainty Rascal
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Part 3 of 3 - I don't want anyone to feel sorry for me, I'm blessed with an optimistic nature and a very good therapist. What I hope comes of this, is normalizing all people telling their must painful, hidden stories. Repressing these injust incidents like he who must not be named publically did from his very painful childhood, can cause emotional trauma that can turn would-be normal people into absolute villains. It will take all hands on deck to solve this, even if nothing of the like has ever happened to you, check in with your friends, be the person they can confide in, and especially check in with the children. I believe, to some degree, everyone benefits from therapy, and I deeply bless and thank every person who chooses that as their profession, and every person who simply is that to those around them without even having a certificate. Just hear people, listen, help each other, even and maybe especially the bad guys. Hurt people do hurt people and it's because they do not have the community or emotional tools to deal with their own feelings. Let's get to the root of it, all of us. I have hope that a time of radical personal responsibility is coming for all of us as individuals so that we may make up a far kinder collective humanity. Shout out to my horses who heal! @heartofgoldsanctuary
2025-01-09
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Part 2 of 3 - These are my personal stories of assault that have happened in Sonoma County, and by no means are these the only ones I have. I hate to believe what I know, which is that this IS more common than any of us want to believe. I understand how it can be hard to believe people when they say they've been "graped" because it really is f☆ing unbelievable. I used to be skeptical myself and it's happened to me over and over, and still I went on pretty oblivious, simply not naming it, not labeling it, imagining it was just something that I attracted. Imagining that it was just me. When I found out he had done this to a little girl, everything changed. I took it seriously, and I did what I could through the justice system and met a big brick wall. I did what I could on my own, and maybe some kind of self reckoning did come to him from my conversation with him, and maybe not, maybe he's still finding girls to pass on his pain to. All I know is I want to be someone who helps put an end to this in any way that I can. I want to be someone who makes others feel more comfortable telling their stories so it's not some heavy secret crushing them all the time. I want to call out r☆pists for what they are, deeply insecure, pain filled people who steal the connections they know they don't deserve. There is no one as weak as the person who simply takes what they refuse to earn. Life is hard, relationships are hard, and three is no excuse for reacting to hardship in a way that forces someone else to carry your pain. When men ask what they can do, they can report the men they know are doing wrong. They can save the girl who looks "out of it", they can stand up to evil and REPORT it, because of men start reporting "grapes" then maybe women will be taken seriously.
2025-01-09
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PART 1 OF 3 - I tell these stories of assault not to bring up fear, but so that we can bring them to the light where they can be understood, inspire others to have the courage to tell their stories and the people involved can be identified and hopefully face their own demons. About a month ago I saw Blink Twice and was deeply triggered, but also kind of relieved to see the group repeat dr☆gging and "graping" of people exposed in such a large scale. Then #GisellePelicot came up on my feed and her story was similar to mine. I had to face the fact that this is not something that just happened to me, it is more common than we know, and if I hadn't found the right therapist and seen her for years to get my mind out of survivor mode, I may have never conciously known about the awful truth of how I was dr☆gged and "graped" by a group of men, one of whom I knew very well, in my own bed. Hearing the excuses of the men involved in Giseles case say things like, "I thought she was in on it", while they were recorded "graping" her unconscious body, was just beyond belief. The fact that 50+ men were recorded taking turns just reminded me that this IS more common than anyone wants to believe. The signs are; unexplained bruising, internal soreness, hair loss, passing out randomly, waking up paralyzed. I forgot to mention in my story, that one of the mornings that I woke up with my body still paralyzed, I heard my sliding glass door open, then I distinctly heard the voice of "he who must not be named publically", say, "Peace", and then my sliding glass door closed. I could not move, I could not open my eyes, I was fully paralyzed still, but my heart was pounding hard, and when I finally fully woke up, I wrote about it because I knew I had heard him, but my mind wouldn't let me believe that could be true. These people are out there living very normal lives, with big families and owning local businesses. I hate to put one more thing on women, but please stay vigilant, check in with yourself, get a damn hidden camera! The police will not take you seriously without video of the assaults, which is why Giseles case finally broke the barrier!
2025-01-09
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Of all the dresses I've made this one gets the most actual wear time. It's just so comfy and flattering all the time! @randy.wentzel of #Sonomacounty came by to photograph the horses @heartofgoldsanctuary my nonprofit horse rescue ranch. ❤️ Randy, thank you!
2024-04-11
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Both of these are not quite finished but I couldn't help but show you what I've been sewing!
2023-05-05
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It's not done, but I love it already! Another beauty for @northbayfashionball which is May 20th in #Petaluma at the #phoenixtheater! See you there!
2023-05-04
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Today's sewing project is another gown for the @northbayfashionball! It's not fully complete yet but I thought I'd share how it's coming along! I used an antique eyelet "doilie runner" for the front of the skirt and the of shoulder neckline. Antique silk ribbon around the waist and a always, a truly vintage metal zipper. ✨️ For @kaijordan808 ???? Thank you for taking care of the horses @heartofgoldsanctuary
2023-04-22
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Reposted @cincinnatus.hibbard The 2nd North Bay Fashion Ball is Saturday May 20th 6pm @thephoenixtheater Petaluma ! Tickets at thepheonixtheater.com and eventbright. 20 for gen admission and 10 for those who want to enter our amateur runway categories! Check The Pheonix for the complete schedule and bill ???? These selects, shot by @heywools at @heartofgoldsanctuary Introduces the creative leads of our 5 local fashion labels in their own styles and attitudes. Each will be presenting a runway collection at the show. We chose thus rural setting for this shoot to say that we are of wine county but we are bigger than that identity and stereotype ???? @bethrht @cincinnatus.hibbard @mortal_string @hotcouturevtg @heterogross @ilichinchilli @jendee_designs @asparagusleenie @lynseewitham @buckluckythebrand @buckluckycollective 100 percent of clothing sales go to the artists. 100 percent of food sales and ticket profits go to @facetofaceaidsnetwork compassionate community medicine ❤️ #northbayfashionball #fashion #sonoma #sonomacounty #sonomacountyartist #sonomacountyphotographer #model #petaluma
2023-04-21
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I made this dress today for my friend @kalli_czyk one of my models for the upcoming @northbayfashionball ✨️ Is made entirely from tablecloths, handkerchiefs and used fabric from @antiquesociety.sebastopol and @legacysewingandcrafts! One dress done, 7 more to go! I'll see you all at the #northbayfashionball on May 20th at the #phoenixtheatre in #Petaluma #sonomacounty!
2023-04-20
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