Ruby Dhal

Ruby Dhal is one of the top Fashion influencer in United Kingdom with 7216 audience and 4.84% engagement rate on Instagram. Check out the full profile and start to collaborate.

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I need a golden retriever, asap!

This was the most beautiful experience with @pawpalyoga where a wonderful experienced yoga teacher hosted a rejuvenating class while we were surrounded by the cutest puppies ever ?

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I absolutely love puppies, especially this little cutie from @pawpalyoga - where they combine yoga with animals to create the perfect experience ?

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Thank you so much @pawpalyoga for having me! This was the most amazing yoga session I've ever had. It was phenomenal. And now I'm in love with this gorgeous puppy that I wish I could take home.

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Comparison is the biggest threat to happiness. Comparing your outfit, physical appearance, education, career, relationships, and love-life to others can have the worst effect on your life. Because you think that other people’s highlights are what your everyday should look like. And that is wrong. Turning to other people’s lives to idealise your own ‘perfect’ existence not only sets unrealistic standards for all areas of your life –but it results in immense disappointment when your life doesn’t turn out in that ‘picture-perfect’ way you thought it would. Remember the phrase, ‘The grass is greener where you water it’, and nothing could be more honest than this –because your life will be as beautiful as your actions show. If you make effort in cultivating healthy relationships, then your relationships will blossom. If you work hard towards your goals and dreams, then they will eventually show the fruition of all the hours you put in. If you wake up each morning with a grateful mindset then life will correspond to that bright picture, rather than represent the dim reality that you falsely believe it is when you look at other people’s highlight reels.
But this doesn’t mean that your life won’t have difficulties. Manifesting a good life and ‘watering’ the grass of your relationships, career and growth does not mean that sometimes you won’t fail, have problems or get your heart broken. Because, sure, the sun rises every day, but it does not always shine. Because that is what life is about –struggles, pain, learning and growth and, following that, happiness, love, peace. Life is not one shade of perfect. It is a kaleidoscope of pain, change, and love. And I know you think that your pain is worse than others, that your struggles are heavier, because other people look like they are having the best time. But that’s not true. No one shares their unhappiness on social media. People don’t post about their bad days and if they do then they have gathered enough strength to be able to do so. And you should gather the same amount of strength to know that no two souls are the same so how could two lives be? No two people are the same so how could their happiness be compared?

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Picnics with a view are my favorite ? #rubydhal @r.dhalblogger

You don’t owe people anything. You don’t owe people an explanation for why you had to cancel on dinner because you wanted to spend some time alone. You don’t owe them a justification for why you ended up in tears when you were all having a good time and they assumed that you were happy, but no one knew that you were quietly dying on the inside. You don’t owe people an apology for caring too much, for always looking out for them, or for loving them too much and being worried about them. You don’t owe people your time and effort, especially if they give none in return to you. You don’t owe long-lost friends who once made you feel bad for who you were a, ‘Let’s meet up for old time’s sake’, just because you’re no longer in the pit where they’d left you. You don’t owe ex-lovers late night conversations when they feel lonely, even though they claim to the world that they’ve moved on and are happier now. And you don’t owe people your energy or your love, especially when you’re the one who needs to heal.

Those who care about you will get that you need your time, and that you can’t come out because right now nothing feels good. Those who love you will know why you cancelled last minute, or why you ended up in tears on their special day, or why you no longer talk or smile or laugh as much as you used to.

Those who value you will get why you do the things that you do, they will accept that you’re struggling to cope, and that you need your space but when you’re ready you will reach out to them. Those who love you won’t make you feel bad for changing during your healing journey, because they will recognise that sometimes things need to get worse before they get better. Those who love you will never question your love or care for them, because they will just know.

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Believe that you can and you're halfway there.

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How can you think that you are weak? Remember the first time that you broke your heart, failed at something, or had a fight with your friend and thought to yourself –this is it; I will never be okay again. But time passed and you wrapped yourself with the string of strength as you forgave, accepted new things and learned to love again. Remember the number of times you had to pick up after other people, the moments when you were the one who had to clean up the mess, when you had to make amends and be the bigger person. Remember the first time you felt pain –deep, jittery pain in your ribs. The kind of pain that you could physically feel in your heart. Remember when you believed that you can never come through from this pain, when you hugged a corner of your room and turned off all the lights until they resembled the darkness within you. Remember the months that followed –waking up each morning with the weight of your heartache in your chest, and how hard it was to plant a smile on your face when your insides were hurting. But remember how you pulled through, how you learned to not only smile but laugh again, how you adventured, experiences and waltzed through so many new things that made you, you. Things that changed you so much that the old you would have never recognised the person you became.

Remember how you once believed that the hurting you felt would never go away, and then remember how it did –how, one morning you woke up to sunlight dripping on your face and you felt the warmth melt your heart into whole again. So, how can you think that you are weak when you have gone through so much and come out stronger? Because remember when you told yourself that you would never be okay again, remember when you believed that your life was over. But then you went ahead and built a new life for yourself anyway.

Remember when you started to believe in yourself. Remember when you started to live.

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I've not shared these photos with you guys! This was one of my most enjoyable experiences. It was my first book launch ever back in 2018 for my book, 'A Handful of Stars'. It was so beautiful. I was surrounded by family, friends and fellow creatives and the evening was an incredibly magical one. One I won't ever forget! It was the first time I got on stage and performed in front of my friends and family. I still smile when I think back to this day. It was amazing ❤

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